Think about dating like survival of the fittest! Evolutionary theories explain our relationship formation and mate selection.

The idea is, we're drawn to traits that help us pass on our genes.

If someone looks healthy and capable of having babies (youth, smooth skin, good muscle tone, and full lips), they're usually seen as attractive.

This theory applies to everyone, no matter where they're from.

Real-life example: Ever wondered why people often say "She has good genes"? Now you know!

Remember the name David Buss. He did an important study (1989) involving 10,000 people from 33 countries to find out what characteristics people value in a mate.

It's like a worldwide dating survey! The results? Men value physical attractiveness and youth more, while women value financial capacity and ambition more.

But, Buss had to ensure the survey results matched real life, so he checked the actual marriage statistics of the countries surveyed. Turns out, they matched pretty well!

This helps support the evolutionary theory of mate selection for both males and females.

Real-life example: Think of it like this, if dating was a game, women would be picking out partners who are good at 'farming' (bringing resources) and men would be going for partners who can 'produce more workers' (having babies).

Interestingly, over time, people are valuing financial prospects and a desire for home and children more, both men and women.

Also, both men and women are becoming more similar in mate selection preferences.

Humor, trust, and loyalty have become more valued characteristics.

But remember, these studies were mainly done in the USA, so it doesn't mean everyone in the world thinks the same way!

Real-life example: It's like noticing everyone start to enjoy both vanilla and chocolate ice cream, instead of only one flavor!